See Girl Goal

Jeremy Brooks, Budget
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I’m posting this from the library because at the start of February I had my internet service disconnected.  This was after months of searching for discount codes and “limited time offer, price lowering” data level trade outs, anything to lessen the bill but keep my connection.

When I canceled I spoke with Juanita, a very kind lady who remained mostly kind when she offered me a small discount to stay connected and I declined.  As a former retail worker I assumed there was some kind of sign up/stay signed up quota attached to her day and I’d messed that up.  So when she questioned why I didn’t want the no strings attached lower payment, I felt obligated to answer truthfully.  Hourly workers united and such.

I blurted out that my finances were out of hand.  I was living paycheck-to-paycheck, was going rounds with a student loan company to ensure my lowered dues carried over into the new year, and I really needed to cut anything that wasn’t necessary.

Juanita paused and then offered, “Well, why don’t you just re-enroll in school part-time?  That’s what my daughter did so she could put her loans on hold a little longer.”  Juanita and I joked about the idea but there was a solemn tone to our exchange, an unspoken acknowledgment that everything was wrong with the picture we’d just painted.  It was still the most up front conversation I’d had recently with anyone about finances.

Returning to school part-time is an idea I’ve been kicking around and the more I consider it the better it sounds.  Absurd, yes, but still better.  In truth, I won’t do it because despite the short burst of freedom it will allow, that freedom would be false and ultimately only add more depth to the financial hole I’ve dug for myself.

To give you an idea of how deep that hole currently is, I’m going to be more honest with you that I was with Juanita.  Yes, my finances are out of hand and below is a breakdown of just how out of control they are.  The amounts listed are USD.

  • •$7,000 credit card debt (Two, maxed out.)
  • •$10,500 car loan
  • •$49,500 private student loans
  • •$127,000 government student loans

Total debt $194,000.  Do you understand why I wanted that $50/month back?

Talking to Juanita put things into perspective for me, namely that my situation is becoming all too common but also that I’d rather penny pinch to meet a goal that benefits me, not only to make ends meet.  This is a scary place to be and I don’t intend to occupy it much longer.  There are so many things I want to accomplish and full debt repayment is absolutely at the top of that list.

Welcome to See Girl Goal!  I’ve got a lot of work to do.